Life is Happening Now

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risk |rɪsk|

• something man is afraid to take

• a deceiving little thing that indicates all the vain possibilities of danger: creeping into man's mind, manipulating it, and hindering man to live

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For the lot of the time I've been living, a question always seems to enter my mind, without my subconscious knowing it. It's a question that's been crawling into the very walls of my brain, screaming its message aloud; its voice echoing through my head, not willing to stop. That question, my friends, is the very famous, "What if?"

Starting Day 1, I've always been the "scaredy cat," the one who hates taking any risks. Heck, my younger sister is even braver than me. She's not scared of almost anything. Almost. And that's saying something, seeing the fact that she's five years younger. I've been called a "chicken" by her every time we go to some amusement park where there's tons of cool rides. I'm starting to get annoyed, but that's not bothers me the most.

I commonly hear people say, "Live your life now," but only recently did I understand what they truly meant. Life is about taking risks,  going out of your comfort zone, and living like there's no tomorrow. 

We all have dreams, don't we? And in the process of making those dreams come true, we have risks. If we aren't willing to face the dangers that may come our way, then how do we expect our dreams to come true? We shouldn't stay and wait for things to happen. 

Waiting shouldn't become a habit of ours, because if we continue to wait, what will we accomplish in our lives? Nothing. If we wait until we're ready, we'll be waiting for the rest of our lives. Life is happening now. And we should go along with it, not stay in the same place forevermore.

What we want isn't always going to appear before us in a flick of a finger. We don't have fairy godmothers who will grant our every wish. If we want something, we do it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. That's the end of it.

In life, so far, the only regrets I have are the risks I wasn't willing to take. I became too relaxed with my comfort zone and carelessly forgot the enthralling feeling of danger and risk. I forgot the need to balance things in life, just like Yin and Yang. Balancing the ease and danger in my life.

Most of the time, I too easily doubt myself with the things I can do, and end up wondering, "What would have I done, if I knew I couldn't fail?" I've risked things too small this year, and from now on, I need to start failing big and stop running from my fears.

     

From my week-long vacation to Hong Kong, I've learned so many things that have inspired this post. When we went to Disneyland, fear was quickly taking over me as I saw the thrilling rides. But in the end, I rode them anyway and found out that they're not as scary as they look. Super fun, actually. Those experiences will forever be irreplaceable, and that's what matters.

My life finally made a great turn, when I left my comfort zone. 

I was given a chance to take the risk, I took it, and that's what's important. Taking the chance. All the limits from my past regrets were all self imposed, that's what angers me the most. But of course, we all have our limits, especially the really scary rides I decided not to go on during my vacation. And I don't really regret not doing it. But alas, chances and limits are a whole another story.

I've turned my life in a different direction, and I'm not looking back now. It's a risk to love, and a risk to dream, but I do them anyway. My life in now set for new adventures, new discoveries. All of which have risks I'll be willing to take. I'll have no more regrets. After all, what's the use of looking back now?

Take risks.

Live your life.

You have the power to chose:

 whether to stay in your comfort zone,

or go out and explore the world.

Fulfil your dreams.

Don't wait 'till you're ready.

Don't have regrets.

Balance things in life.

Don't be afraid.

Make experiences.

Take the chances,

but always limit yourself.

Fail big, fail good.

Dream and love,

live an extraordinary life.

- (asayoungwriter) Bryanna